Houses for Big Birthdays

For 40ths, 50ths, 60ths and beyond, with everyone under one roof.

Houses for big birthdays

Birthdays are one of the most common reasons people enquire with us, and a 40th, 50th or 60th is when a big house really comes into its own. These are the houses birthday groups ask us about most, with room to spread out and space for everyone to sit down together. Most birthday groups are around 18 adults, and most enquire six to eight months ahead.

12 houses, sleeping 16 to 52, with weekends from £1,850.

Beggars’ Barn, Oxfordshire – Brick country house with heated swimming pool and manicured grounds surrounded by farmland.

Special Offer

Dates Available

Oxfordshire

Beggars’ Barn

  • 30 Guests
  • 10 Bedrooms
  • 8 Bathrooms

A delightful Oxfordshire luxury country house, with a swimming pool, hot tub and arctic cabin. 10 bedrooms 8 bathrooms, tranquil location, private.

Weekends From £4,000

Weeks From £7,500

Northcourt House, Hampshire – Stone country house with ivy-covered facade, manicured lawns and wooden farm gates. Dates Available

Hampshire

Northcourt House

  • 40 Guests
  • 20 Bedrooms
  • 19 Bathrooms

Northcourt on the Isle of Wight - a beautiful manor house dating from the 1600s.

Weekends From £1,850

Weeks From £2,300

The Long House – Red brick country house with leaded windows and tall chimneys, surrounded by mature hedging. Dates Available

West Sussex

The Long House

  • 21 Guests
  • 10 Bedrooms
  • 7 Bathrooms

The Long House is a much-loved family home, newly available to guests. The beautiful Grade II listed house is set in 5 acres of garden, and surrounded by Sussex parkland and woodland.

Weekends From £2,500

Weeks From £5,000

The Old House, Hampshire – Georgian brick house set within mature tree-lined grounds with spring bulbs. Dates Available

Hampshire

The Old House

  • 16 Guests
  • 8 Bedrooms
  • 5 Bathrooms

Our family home, recently renovated and now available for short term rents or family gatherings. Based in North Hampshire, about one hour from London.

Weekends From £2,200

Weeks From £6,000

Tone Dale House, Somerset – Georgian country house with manicured lawn and mature trees surrounding gravel pathway. Dates Available

Somerset

Tone Dale House

  • 31 Guests
  • 16 Bedrooms
  • 10 Bathrooms

A big, friendly party-house with plenty to keep everyone entertained, set beside a lazy mill stream.

Weekends From £3,900

Weeks From £7,350

Solton Manor Estate, Kent – Brick manor house with manicured grounds, topiary conifers and wooden bench. Enquire for Availability

Kent

Solton Manor Estate

  • 30 Guests
  • 13 Bedrooms
  • 7 Bathrooms

Historic Grade II manor (10 bedrooms) with 2 bed Dovecote Cottage, set in 9 acres, with a large Dutch Barn for weddings and celebrations.

Weekends From £3,750

Weeks From £8,750

The Manners Arms, Lincolnshire – Red brick Georgian country house with gravel forecourt and glazed conservatory extension. Enquire for Availability

Lincolnshire

The Manners Arms

  • 20 Guests
  • 10 Bedrooms
  • 10 Bathrooms

Nestled just five minutes from the iconic Belvoir Castle, The Manners is a one-of-a-kind private hire retreat.

Weekends From £2,000

Weeks From £8,000

Gunthorpe Hall, Norfolk – Red-brick country house with ivy-covered walls and manicured lawns.

Special Offer

Dates Available

Norfolk

Gunthorpe Hall

  • 52 Guests
  • 16 Bedrooms
  • 10 Bathrooms

A private country house for up to 52, where everyone stays under one roof, dines around one table, and embraces our home as your own.

Weekends From £5,250

Weeks From £9,000

Bessingham Manor, Norfolk – Red brick Victorian manor house with multiple chimneys and pitched gable ends, gravel driveway and adjoining outbuilding. Dates Available

Norfolk

Bessingham Manor

  • 35 Guests
  • 10 Bedrooms
  • 8 Bathrooms

Bessingham Manor is a stunning Victorian manor house on the edge of the North Norfolk Coast, sleeping 35 across the Manor House and an extra self-contained Wing, with a main hall seating 36 for dining.

Weekends From £3,800

Weeks From £4,200

Knowle Manor – Victorian mansion with red brick façade and mansard roof beside tree-lined lake.

Special Offer

Enquire for Availability

Somerset

Knowle Manor

  • 50 Guests
  • 20 Bedrooms
  • 20 Bathrooms

A most elegant Elizabethan country house, tucked within the wilds of Exmoor.

Weekends From £6,350

Weeks From £12,750

Upper Court, Gloucestershire – Stone country house with ivy-covered facade, mansard roof and curved turret.

Special Offer

Dates Available

Gloucestershire

Upper Court

  • 44 Guests
  • 17 Bedrooms
  • 15 Bathrooms

Upper Court is a Georgian manor built in 1760, with 15 acres of grounds, including a private lake, swimming pool, tennis courts, children’s play ground and beautiful gardens.

Weekends From £7,094

Weeks From £13,821

Holly House, Derbyshire – Aerial view of country house with ivy-covered trees and rolling valley farmland beyond. Dates Available

Derbyshire

Holly House

  • 32 Guests
  • 16 Bedrooms
  • 14 Bathrooms

Spacious 16-bedroom country house near Belper with 14 en-suites, generous social spaces, hot tub, Arctic Cabin and countryside views.

Weekends From £5,750

Weeks From £6,500

Every big birthday is a bit different

Plas Dinam, Powys – Evening garden party under glass pavilion with central firepit and guests gathered around flames.

40ths are usually friends, and often a later night. A hot tub and a games room get plenty of use, and so does a house that is properly rural, where music after midnight bothers nobody. If it is turning into a party weekend, have a look at our party houses too.

50ths tend to be the biggest. It is common for the birthday group to stay for the weekend and invite more friends for the Saturday night, so check two things early: whether the owner allows guests who are not staying, and how many the dining room really seats. Some houses can take a marquee. Bank holiday weekends go first.

60ths, 70ths and 80ths are mostly family, often three or four generations under one roof. That changes what to look for: a step-free bedroom for the grandparents, cots and space for small children, and one big table for a proper sit-down dinner.

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Genuine reviews

Great website; easy to navigate and good filter system. Prices look really competitive

Richard Chalmers

Really pleased with my experience with landed houses, was searching for a large house to celebrate my 50th and landed houses had lots of good options...managed to secure somewhere for a good price and looking forward to our dates, many thanks to Edmund and the house owner for their friendly correspondence and help, Steve

Stephen Alexander

Some great houses on offer here /all new to me! Now we are planning our next big family getogether!

Tina Metcalfe

Barbara Ryan

When I was faced with having to find a large house with a pool for a family celebration at relatively short notice, Edmund at Landed Houses came straight to my aid. He responded promptly to my email enquiries, even on a Sunday, putting me in direct contact with someone who managed a property that fitted my needs; the outcome being that a superb house, with everything I need, was secured within 24 hours of my first enquiry. Many thanks, Edmund, for making the task so straightforward. If you’re looking for that special house for a party or family gathering I can recommend Landed Houses as your first port of call.

Mrs Manors

Birthday Questions

How far ahead should we book a big birthday weekend?

Most birthday groups enquire six to eight months ahead. For bank holidays, Christmas or New Year a year is safer. If the date is fixed because the birthday is, it is worth asking a few houses at once rather than waiting on one.

How many people do birthday groups usually bring?

Typically around 18 adults staying, though we see everything from eight to well over 40. Children are common at 60ths and later, so say how many and how old when you enquire.

Can we invite extra guests just for the party night?

Sometimes. Some owners are happy with day guests or a bigger Saturday dinner, some limit numbers or noise, and a few do not allow it at all. Ask before you book and get the answer in writing. Our party houses page has more on music and neighbours.

Can we have a marquee?

A few of the larger houses can take one, usually arranged with the owner and sometimes with their own suppliers. Ask early, as it affects the price and which dates work.

How much does a big birthday weekend cost?

Shared between a full house, most work out at roughly £40 to £110 per person per night. Weekends cost more than midweek, and bank holidays more again. The price on each house is the owner’s own, and you book with them directly with no commission.

Can we combine it with Christmas or New Year?

Yes, and it is a popular way to do a December birthday. See our Christmas and New Year houses, and book early as those dates go first.

Can we bring the dog?

Plenty of houses take dogs. Use the pet friendly filter to see them.